Fan Psychology

Why we fall in, and how to stay well

Why do we get so absorbed, and why does it sometimes wear us out? Understand the closeness fans feel and the load that support can carry, then find a way to enjoy it that fits you.

5 articles 12 podcast episodes

How to explore this theme

Start with why people fall for an oshi, then move on to articles about distance and oshi-katsu fatigue. The podcast episodes follow real works and real fan behavior to show how those feelings move.

Articles and glossary terms

From the key words to real cases.

  1. 01
    Psychology

    Why Do We Fall for an Oshi? The Psychology of Wanting More, Feeling Close and Widening Your World

    Why do people fall for an oshi? A beginner's guide to three workings of the mind: wanting to see more, feeling close without meeting, and watching your world expand.

  2. 02
    Psychology

    How Close Is Too Close to Your Oshi? A Guide to Healthy Distance, With Data From 10,000+ Fans

    Distance from your oshi isn't how often you meet. It's the boundary that protects you both. Parasocial research, survey data, warning signs and checklists.

  3. 03
    Psychology

    What Is Oshi-Katsu Fatigue? 5 Moments Your Oshi Becomes an Obligation, and How to Reset

    70.8% of fans have felt their motivation drop. Five causes of oshi-katsu fatigue, from social media monitoring to money and oshi loss, and how to reset.

  4. 04
    Psychology

    How to Cope With Oshi Loss After a Graduation, Breakup or Retirement

    When your oshi graduates, disbands or retires, it can feel like a hole in your heart. A guide to handling that loss at your own pace, without rushing the sadness.

  5. 05
    Psychology

    What Is Doutan Kyohi? Why Some Fans Can't Stand Others Who Love the Same Oshi

    The psychology of doutan kyohi, or refusing to share an oshi: three types, why it isn't bad, and what to do when it starts to feel heavy.

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English summaries, and every episode has English subtitles.

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